Promise Meant To Be Broken ?

You know..alot of times i heard people saying this " Are promise meant to be broken ?".This sentence mostly come from people who have just broke up and they wonder why did it happen when their partner says : " I'll never leave you and bla bla",and most of the time the victim will take that as a promise of faithfulness.

A promise can be made in different forms.By mouth,on paper or with visual evidence.But sometimes even if there is evidence that the person made this promise he/she breaks it as well.This problem remains a mystery to many people.Firstly,i want to say that people who break their promises arent bitches or bastards.They just have a problem managing their own factor of knowings whats right and wrong.

Technically, a promise is not to be broken.This is because when you promise something to someone its like a pact made between you two or you to a group and trust it involved,and thus this create a kind of relationship you have with that person.That is this promise that can make you friends or enemies.You ask me why ?.Just imagine your partner makes a promise to you.Say,he wont cheat on you again.But later on you found out he did cheat on you again,doesnt it makes you sad and full of hatred?When hatred is involved,that person more likely turns into an enemy.It actually all depends on the person's characteristic to whether he breaks a promise or not.There are people who will stick and abide by that promise and there are just some who cant.

So question.Why do people still break their promises!As i mentioned above people have problem managing their factor of knowing whats right and wrong.This divides them into 2 parts,their body and their mind.Although science may say that the brain controls whatever the body does,but i think otherwise.I feel that its the body that controls the mind.People may have strong actions but saying "im not gonna break this promise and bla bla".But they have a weak mind and gives in to the thought of breaking the promise.Often when a friend ask that person : " hey why did you break that promise".And he/she replies" I dont know".See this is what i mean.Weak mind that gives in easily to temptations.During the point that they thought of breaking that promise they never come to think of the consequences, and BAM they decide to break the promise.

Addresing this issue in a BGR ( boy and girl relationship).Why is it so that people will break their promise of being faithful.Besides the factor that is mention on top,the other might be because they want or expect more from the other half and the other half was not able to do it.And i believe you guys know people will get nasty when they do not get what they want.Of course im not saying that they have the right to do that but its human nature.Its like when we are babies,when we dont get milk we cry and make noise till we get it.This character will follow us till we grow up you maybe able to change it abit but the roots are still there and we are designed this way.

Hope this query is solved =). Peace Out ~ J