Monday, June 1, 2009

Love ?

Many times people talked about what is love.Example,love is when you find someone that you can talk to,be there for you,stand in the gap for you and many more.While others think that love is just a game with 2 players and after the time pass people get bored and bad things start to happen.
There are many definations of love to different people.But what one always wonders what is true love ?

Of course i might not have the correct answer to this question but as always i like to give things a try.To love is to actually give and not to take,to understand and not misunderstand,to show care and compassion to that someone who you hold in your arms and not to mistreat her.And most importantly i feel to love is to never give up.

Many times people get hurt in a relationship and they will say " Im not gonna have another partner forever ! ".To me this isnt the right way of seeing things.Its like getting a cut or even an accident,you got injured,but you will heal you see.You say " It's been so long and i couldnt forget him/her time is not a remedy".Then i say : " Ask yourself this have you really given up ? Or have you really let go ?" You say : " Yeah i have given up ".Question is why are you still thinking about him or her ? How do know you have given up ? Its Easy,its call the Three D's. Dont think,Dont care and Dont bother.People say a champion is someone who Never quits.So same for love if you dont quit or dont give up i am sure God will give you someone u deserve.

People have bad experience as well.Example,being ditch by their partner who they love deeply and they give up on love.What I want to say is,don’t be so dumb.Dont burn down the whole forest for a rotten tree.If that guy or girl doesn’t care why hold on ? Its useless eh ? And then you ask “ where’s my dream lover bla bla “.Hello ? If you don’t even try again you wont find him or her ?Sometimes some people comes and “jio” you and u reject thinking that you don’t want to get into a relationship,but have you thought that maybe he or she might be the one ? It might not seem on the surface that they are but who knows,relationship works in miraculous ways.

My advice,Never give up on Love simply because you don’t know when you will hit jackpot and if you do give up you will just miss your toto or 4D lst price.And never put your feelings a hundred percent,then even if you get hurt you wont hurt that badly.Of course you must be faithful and stuff but unless you are sure don’t drown yourself too deep before its too late. Peace out ~ =)

2 Comments:

Blogger Amelia said...

yeah lovee is the keyy! seek first the kingdom of God & he'll make sure to place your future partner into your life at the right moment in time. cos e rest will be added. it'll be gooda. Jeff, thought you say you not a blogger? haha since when you started to blog stuff? Lol, but its good la.

loves, amelia :D

June 1, 2009 at 8:19 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

logically speaking,love supposed to be happy however when things get bad,peeps tend to be afraid to try again bcos is painful.We never understand one,bcos we are not the one feeling it.Everyone have their own experience,own pain to suffer but it depends on the person if he/she is wiling to start up again.
Most girl has this in them :
Under that confidence woman,there is a pretty little unsecured girl.Hence give those peep sometime to regain their confidence.

June 1, 2009 at 8:19 AM  

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