Love Part 1

This will be a 3 part series on love.New revelation on it haha was talking to my leader today after bible study and guess what it just popped into my head.

Today's topic will be on what is it like to love someone.There are many definations on this.But well i have my own too.To me to Love someone is to be excited always when you get the chance to meet them.Today i learn that if that person is not excited to meet you means they are not interested.Its impossible that they say they like you and their response to you when you guys are about to meet is "anything lor or Up to you".Im sure if your loved one reply you this way you will be sad as well wont you ?

To love someone is when you close up your eyes and you can picture that person so nicely,every feature of their face and when you see their smile you would just be so happy even when the day is so bad.To love someone is also to serve them regardless of whose giving in and you will never be tired of doing it or doing it with complains.Its just like a shepherd guarding their sheeps they will never get tired of doing it because they love their sheeps.

To love someone is also to always have them in your mind.If you dont even miss them during the day then something is wrong ! Check up on yourself haha ! Same rule applies here,for the
shepherd and sheep example.If your love them you will always have them on your mind !

Well thats all i have for this edition J out ~

ps: This post is not pointing to anyone

Feelings

Feeling Lost,Down,Confuse,Irritated, and many many more. Dont know why and things just suck.Think that things would be fine but things just aiant the way i predicted.Surrendering myself doesnt seem to have any effects.But,have faith to hold on,even if the end is disappointing or expected.

Lord,i trust you.

Sorry for not blogging for sooooo long.Just dont have the topics and feeling not well.Busy with school also.Emo is the word and Emo is the feeling.

Yay ! Im Back~ And all ma supporters are gone T.T,but never mind,i will still continue to write !Well as i was walking back from dinner today a thought came to my mind so i decided to explore it.

Yeap.The topic for today is Childish or not ? Have you seen people mocking their friends using the word "Childish"? Im sure you do,singapore society is like full of all people mocking people. =XBut have you ever wondered why they will mock people like this ? What meaning do they really have ? Was it the thing that the victim did was really childish or there is another reason?


There are a three reasons that i could think of why would they mock people like this.Firstly,they are just joking around.Secondly,because that person really did something childish for HIS/HER age.

Thirdly,it is possible that they did not have a good child hood.Thats why when they see people behaving like a kid they have a sudden feeling of rejection.Thus, wanting their friend or that person to be on "his side",he labelled the person as childish to make that individual think that what he was doing is wrong.And return to the "correct side" which is his side.That way he would feel more comfortable.

The fact is sometimes you cannot blame that individual for acting that way.This is because in each and everyone of us there is a kid planted inside of us.We came out as babies and we will die a baby as well.What do i mean.When we get older,our body actually grows weaker,and our intelligence will start to decrease as the days goes by.This is excatly the same when we first came out of our mothers womb,weak and knowing nothing.

No matter what age there is a possibility of us acting as kids,this is because we cant control it.It is our sub - concious mind that is working.So be sure if you see someone acting childish dont be quick to correct but understand.

J Out~

Priorities..

Sorry guys ! For not blogging for so long.Cause i didnt know what to write about.But through these days i finally found something to write again ! Feel free to comment as always.

Talking about priorities.What is it ? Priority means things that we place in order in our life to do from the most important to the least important.I am sure many of you will know that.And then you will ask how will i know which is my REAL priority.I am addressing on this problem because many times people will actually place they priorities wrongly and thus, leading to negative results when they are trying to achieve something.

Most oftenly people will put something that they WANT so much as a priority in their life but actually forgetting that their priority should be what they need instead of what they want.Of course in times people place them correctly also.Example: Getting good results in school.This is something what a student wants and what a student needs.Another example would be someone would want that super good phone when he/she just need an average one.Thus, people oftenly place their priorities wrongly because of this factor.

Stuff in life just always creates a fake image infront of you and it brings you to a stage of confusion between the real thing and the goodness of the fake thing.Its like,a trojan horse(computer virus).On the surface ,trojan horse disguise itself as a useful program and lures people to download it and when its downloaded it does horrible things to your computer.This occurs with some priority in our lifes.We tend to mislead ourselves and thinks that we are going the right way when we are not.

For you christian peeps out there,how to know your priority is actually to know God's priority in your life.God's way is always higher then our ways.Follow that and you will never go wrong.When you find that you arent following the ways of the lord it means that you have gone astray.It is said in the bible that God has already planned your every step to take.The decision lies in our hands to obey or not.In other words,God has already set our priorities FOR US.We just have to follow it.

Well this is all i have for you guys ! Ciaoz ~ J out ..

Vulgarities..

This post will actually be talking about vulgarities and my view on people using them.As you know vulgarities can be used for different purposes.Sometimes to vent anger,sometimes to follow the trend and sometimes people do not even know why they scold them.Which is a serious problem with people today.

To me vulgarities are like a virus,once you are use to using it you will be some how "infected" by it,and you tend to keep using it not thinking about why you are using it.In my life i have seen people practically teenagers of my age or even younger spamming vulgarities like never before.Every sentence they speak forth from their mouth contains of maximum vulgarity usage,this depends on how long their sentence is.My question to them is (Do you find a purpose in scolding them in the first place?).

People will say that its a way they use to show their anger,but my advice would be,there are other ways to show your anger.And the definite choice would not be using vulgarities.This is because from my view one who uses so much vulgarity would actually cause them to lose their vocabulary, this is because every vocabulary used in a sentence is taken over by their vulgarity.
And it shows how uncivilise you are if you keep scolding them,although civilise people uses them as well but not as often.An example will be in normal english ( can you pls pass me my coat) and in otherwise (can you fking pass the fking coat to me you fker).You are surprised,but there are people like this.Vulgarities are like an everyday meal to them.Its like the air they breath.

Now moving on to the spiritual side.As christians we are not suppose to scold vulgarities.Why ?Because Jesus doesnt scold them haha.Another reason is because we as living testimonies are suppose to bear good fruit and carry the way we talk.As our words carry weight and have power,thus,if we were to speak foul language what would other people think of us.

Another reason would be,our body is like temple of God and our holy spirit dwells in us, and by scolding foul language actually grieves our holy spirit and of course its not good.So just a remind to you peeps out there try to surpress your anger if possible because what you bound on earth will be bound in heaven and what you speak forth will come to pass if you keep confessing.

Chill out J~

Right or Wrong..

Most of the time in most of the situations when there is an argument and one of the party emerge victorious they themselves will think that they are right.Yes,this is true,when they place their facts and reason and then win an arguement and they are being favoured they are right.

Another kind of example would be like someone else offended you and you tend to think whatever you are going to do to him is what he deserves and is right.Technically,you are right because its what he/she deserve but on the contrary you are wrong.The reason will be listed below.

In life there are many things that are subjected to the so call "Right" and some of course "Wrong".An example will be 1 + 1 = 2 .This answer is correct no doubt.Nothing can change this fact.Another scenario would be someone robbing you.What that person did was wrong because stealing is classified as an wrong act.

Ok what i am trying to address here is even if the situation is correct but ! we might be wrong.Why?

There isnt any problem proclaiming your right when you are really right in something but the problem comes when you go on top of your head.What do i mean by this,given the situation that somebody have wronged you.And after proclaiming you are right you continue to bear that grudge and want to punish that person so badly and want them to get what they deserve so badly.

The heart of vengence is the problem friends.The disability to forgive and forget is the problem.The bible teaches us to be merciful to our enemies,no matter what others have wronged us,we forgive and forget.Be like Jesus since we are his disciples.People maybe disappointed you,wrong you but why dont we just react how christ react,grant them with mercy and Love them instead of wanting them dead.

Chill out ~ J

Difference between people with Ego and people with High Self - esteem..

Many times in life we have been classified under these two categories if we were to have self praise.Firstly,people will say you are an egoist,someone who hase super high ego and always thinks highly of themselves.Secondly,normally people will claim that they are not an egoist but actually having high self-esteem in themselves.

So the question is,which is which or rather how do you know that you have been or have classified others in the correct catogory?Well i thought about this for quite awhile now and somehow the bible thought me something about it.

People who are Egoist normally are like that !
1.Never admit that it is their fault in ANYTHING.
2.Even when they admit it is their fault,in the end they will find something to turn their argument and make themselves faultless.
3.Always brag about their good points and corrects people when people say that they have bad points.
4.Likes to hear praises from people.
5.Will have a very big reaction when you say that they are wrong.

People who have high self -esteem are like this !
1.They are humble in nature,so when you praise them they will agree with you humbly.
2.They will fight for their own rights,if you push their plus point down they will push it up.
3.They will not be discouraged by others easily as they believe in themselves.
4.They are teachable.
5.They will not refuse help others.

ps:Proverbs 25:5-7
Remove the wicked from the king's presence,and his throne will be established through righteousness. Do not exalt yourself in the king's presence, and do not claim a place among great men.It is better for him to say to you, "Come up here,"than for him to humiliate you before a nobleman.

This verse actually means,dont exalt or rather bring yourself up,dont have super high ego learn to be humble learn to accept changes and comments by others.And God will lift you high up,for if you exalt yourself God will put you down and crush you.

There you have it,my view on this topic,Sorry for not blogging for like 2 or 3 days.Im a busy man xD.Give me topics luh ! Chill ~J Out..