Friendship..
What is friendship ? What are friends forever ? These questions flashes through some of our minds sometimes and somehow we could not get an answer to it.As you all might know friendship sometimes cause problems in our life and sometimes they just make our life great !
So what is friendship ? To me friendship is having a friend that you can talk to and communicate thats all.But to some of you it might be different.What "bff" this and that if you gals and guys know what im talking about. =).Some people see friends more important then their loved ones or even life well i have no objection to that indeed most of the time friends are there for you when you need them.You feel all happy and stuff and say " A friend is all i need ".But when things turn ugly you can just flip your off switch and say " Do i even know him/her ?" The point is if you are friends with that person no matter what goes wrong you will still be there standing with them,be it they betrayed you or backstabbed you.Some experiences of mine."Jeff my friend got bf le then i kena pang seh hais sien..he/she everytime like this one".And that person feels that their friendship no longer stands,if you are a real friend just zip up because you might not know you will be like them one day =).
Are friends forever ?This is a tricky one.Friends are forever but friendship isnt.After you made that friend he or she will forever be your friend but the relationship that you have might not be there.Its like your parents even if one day they disown you,you will still be their child just that there isnt any relationship anymore.But you say " Jeff Dont bullshit la, me and my friend so good where will no relationship",then i will tell you"Wait you all quarrel already then come talk to me".My answer is you will never feel the same after something happens between you and your friend.This is the same for relationship as well,after breakups normally its hard to patch up because it wont feel the same and people just get annoyed by it.
Addressing the issue of " why do friends come and go that easily". Again i do not have definate answer to this but as always i'll try =).Maybe the reason might be you ?Think, have you wronged them unknowingly ?Another reason is them.That they are too sensitive towards you that little things you do piss them off so they decide "thats it ..im through with this friendship".
Well what happens to a friendship cant be helped.You can either let it happen or prevent it from happening no point trying to turn things around when it turns ugly because it wont be that new like how it started from the beginning even if it heals.So Think before you Act.Dont Regret.
All in all friendship is like a love relationship,time and effort must be spent to maintain it.If not it will just go down the drain and be washed away.
ps:Dont let the pages flip by itself,because you will never know how fast it will end.
So what is friendship ? To me friendship is having a friend that you can talk to and communicate thats all.But to some of you it might be different.What "bff" this and that if you gals and guys know what im talking about. =).Some people see friends more important then their loved ones or even life well i have no objection to that indeed most of the time friends are there for you when you need them.You feel all happy and stuff and say " A friend is all i need ".But when things turn ugly you can just flip your off switch and say " Do i even know him/her ?" The point is if you are friends with that person no matter what goes wrong you will still be there standing with them,be it they betrayed you or backstabbed you.Some experiences of mine."Jeff my friend got bf le then i kena pang seh hais sien..he/she everytime like this one".And that person feels that their friendship no longer stands,if you are a real friend just zip up because you might not know you will be like them one day =).
Are friends forever ?This is a tricky one.Friends are forever but friendship isnt.After you made that friend he or she will forever be your friend but the relationship that you have might not be there.Its like your parents even if one day they disown you,you will still be their child just that there isnt any relationship anymore.But you say " Jeff Dont bullshit la, me and my friend so good where will no relationship",then i will tell you"Wait you all quarrel already then come talk to me".My answer is you will never feel the same after something happens between you and your friend.This is the same for relationship as well,after breakups normally its hard to patch up because it wont feel the same and people just get annoyed by it.
Addressing the issue of " why do friends come and go that easily". Again i do not have definate answer to this but as always i'll try =).Maybe the reason might be you ?Think, have you wronged them unknowingly ?Another reason is them.That they are too sensitive towards you that little things you do piss them off so they decide "thats it ..im through with this friendship".
Well what happens to a friendship cant be helped.You can either let it happen or prevent it from happening no point trying to turn things around when it turns ugly because it wont be that new like how it started from the beginning even if it heals.So Think before you Act.Dont Regret.
All in all friendship is like a love relationship,time and effort must be spent to maintain it.If not it will just go down the drain and be washed away.
ps:Dont let the pages flip by itself,because you will never know how fast it will end.
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