Monday, July 13, 2009

Yay ! Im Back~ And all ma supporters are gone T.T,but never mind,i will still continue to write !Well as i was walking back from dinner today a thought came to my mind so i decided to explore it.

Yeap.The topic for today is Childish or not ? Have you seen people mocking their friends using the word "Childish"? Im sure you do,singapore society is like full of all people mocking people. =XBut have you ever wondered why they will mock people like this ? What meaning do they really have ? Was it the thing that the victim did was really childish or there is another reason?


There are a three reasons that i could think of why would they mock people like this.Firstly,they are just joking around.Secondly,because that person really did something childish for HIS/HER age.

Thirdly,it is possible that they did not have a good child hood.Thats why when they see people behaving like a kid they have a sudden feeling of rejection.Thus, wanting their friend or that person to be on "his side",he labelled the person as childish to make that individual think that what he was doing is wrong.And return to the "correct side" which is his side.That way he would feel more comfortable.

The fact is sometimes you cannot blame that individual for acting that way.This is because in each and everyone of us there is a kid planted inside of us.We came out as babies and we will die a baby as well.What do i mean.When we get older,our body actually grows weaker,and our intelligence will start to decrease as the days goes by.This is excatly the same when we first came out of our mothers womb,weak and knowing nothing.

No matter what age there is a possibility of us acting as kids,this is because we cant control it.It is our sub - concious mind that is working.So be sure if you see someone acting childish dont be quick to correct but understand.

J Out~

Wednesday, July 8, 2009

Priorities..

Sorry guys ! For not blogging for so long.Cause i didnt know what to write about.But through these days i finally found something to write again ! Feel free to comment as always.

Talking about priorities.What is it ? Priority means things that we place in order in our life to do from the most important to the least important.I am sure many of you will know that.And then you will ask how will i know which is my REAL priority.I am addressing on this problem because many times people will actually place they priorities wrongly and thus, leading to negative results when they are trying to achieve something.

Most oftenly people will put something that they WANT so much as a priority in their life but actually forgetting that their priority should be what they need instead of what they want.Of course in times people place them correctly also.Example: Getting good results in school.This is something what a student wants and what a student needs.Another example would be someone would want that super good phone when he/she just need an average one.Thus, people oftenly place their priorities wrongly because of this factor.

Stuff in life just always creates a fake image infront of you and it brings you to a stage of confusion between the real thing and the goodness of the fake thing.Its like,a trojan horse(computer virus).On the surface ,trojan horse disguise itself as a useful program and lures people to download it and when its downloaded it does horrible things to your computer.This occurs with some priority in our lifes.We tend to mislead ourselves and thinks that we are going the right way when we are not.

For you christian peeps out there,how to know your priority is actually to know God's priority in your life.God's way is always higher then our ways.Follow that and you will never go wrong.When you find that you arent following the ways of the lord it means that you have gone astray.It is said in the bible that God has already planned your every step to take.The decision lies in our hands to obey or not.In other words,God has already set our priorities FOR US.We just have to follow it.

Well this is all i have for you guys ! Ciaoz ~ J out ..